I Moved 28 Times, and Still Can't Find Home

2025-08-03 06:00:33.176

The author recounts her life of frequent moves, starting from childhood due to her father's job. This constant relocation, while initially viewed as a quirk, is revealed to be a reflection of a broader societal trend in the 70s and 80s. The author details the emotional toll of these moves, particularly during formative years, citing studies linking frequent childhood moves to increased risk of depression and lower life satisfaction in adulthood. Her personal experiences include struggles with fitting in, building relationships, and maintaining stability in romantic relationships and housing. Despite a desire for a permanent home, she continues to face challenges in the housing market and grapples with the psychological impact of her nomadic past. The article culminates with her reflection on the paradox of her ability to pack efficiently while struggling to unpack emotionally and create a stable life.